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Marriage / Partnership Mike Anderson Marriage / Partnership Mike Anderson

024. What if You Could Relieve the Trapped Teammate Pressure? (Part 4 - Bonus!)

In this episode, we’re talking about how to get unstuck when you’re feeling Trapped between your spouse and your kids. We call that being a Trapped Teammate and just about every parent in a blended family experiences this to some level. We’re sharing a couple of mindset shifts, some “stories” to avoid, and even a simple 5-step process to help relieve the pressure of feeling trapped.

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Marriage / Partnership, Bonding Mike Anderson Marriage / Partnership, Bonding Mike Anderson

023. How to Move From Feeling Stranded to Being Connected (Part 3 of 3)

I (Mike) often felt stuck on the outside as a step-parent. Kim and Annika had their little inside routines and jokes that I couldn’t seem to connect with. What I really wanted was to instantly feel included…but blended family life just doesn’t work that way. When I was feeling like a Stranded Stranger, what I was really wanting was for our family to “blend”. But one stepfamily expert says that “compartmentalizing” is a better approach…

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Marriage / Partnership Mike Anderson Marriage / Partnership Mike Anderson

021. What is the Stranded Stranger & Trapped Teammate Experience? (Part 1 of 3)

Step Parents, have you ever felt left out? Has it ever felt like there's a big relational chasm that you just can't seem to cross — like you're Stranded?

Bio-Parents, have you ever felt stuck between your spouse and your kids? Do you feel pulled back and forth trying to please both, but not seeming to please anyone — like you're Trapped?

Sooner or later, every step-couple experiences these feelings of being Trapped or Stranded. For some, the feelings are paralyzing and for others, they're just annoying…

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Common Dynamics, Marriage / Partnership Mike Anderson Common Dynamics, Marriage / Partnership Mike Anderson

016. 5 Proven Fundamentals to Something New in Your Blended Family

What do you want for your family over the next year? If you're like most couples in a blended family, you might feel overwhelmed and uncertain about how to move forward. 1 year from now, you probably don't want everyone experiencing the same challenges they are now. You want something new…something better. But how do you make that happen? That's where we come in. Check out this week's episode to discover your starting point to something new for your family this year!

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Common Dynamics, Marriage / Partnership Mike Anderson Common Dynamics, Marriage / Partnership Mike Anderson

012. 4 Meaningful Mindsets for Budgeting Your Happy Holiday

Are we the only ones who want to avoid budgeting for the holidays?! Can't we just spend whatever we want to bring a little happiness to our blended family this one time per year? We wish that were the case. The truth is budgeting in a blended family is more about relationships and emotions than it is about money. As you head into the holidays this year, consider adopting these 4 mindsets…they may just keep you connected as a couple and as a family!

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