203. How to Make Better Decisions and Solve Problems as a United Team
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In this episode, we’re delving into a common challenge for blended family couples: decision-making and problem-solving. Whether managing kids’ expectations, negotiating with an ex, or facing the pain of being a “trapped teammate” or “stranded stranger,” disagreement and differing perspectives can create tension and keep you stuck.
We’ve been there ourselves, and we share relatable stories, including a meltdown at the mall over a swimsuit and how it almost derailed our unity. Plus, we unpack practical strategies that have been game-changers for us and the couples we coach.
We believe that every blended couple needs a strategy for decision-making and problem-solving that helps them to stay united and avoid confusion, pain, and disconnection. Grab a coffee, sit back, and let’s tackle this together.
You'll Discover
How to avoid falling into the "trapped teammate" or "stranded stranger" dynamic.
Three key “DON’TS” that will safeguard your relationship from unnecessary conflict.
A powerful brainstorming hack to make decisions and solve problems as a united team.
How to manage decision-making pressures from kids and ex-spouses.
Practical tips to stay connected and strengthen teamwork in tough moments.
Resources from this Episode
Episode 202. How to Break Free from Painful Cycles and Enjoy Deeper Levels of Intimacy [with Ron and Nan Deal]
Episode 21: What is the Stranded Stranger & Trapped Teammate Experience
Episode 22: One Simple - and Romantic - Way to Combat Being Stranded or Trapped
Episode 23: How to Move From Feeling Stranded to Being Connected
Episode 24: What if You Could Relieve the Trapped Teammate Pressure?
Episode 95: Do You Dread Negotiating Schedule Changes with Your Ex - Try These 5 Practical Tips
Episode 13: How to Parent as a Team in Your Blended Family
Episode 83: 4 Everyday Favoritism Traps that Dishearten Kids in a Blended Family
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