205. 4 Facets of Parenting: What Bio Parents Need to Know to Achieve Best Outcomes (Part 2)
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We know firsthand that parenting in a blended family isn’t the same as parenting in a first family. A biological parent's role is crucial in helping kids adjust to change, supporting step-relationships, and keeping things running smoothly.
But here’s the challenge—many bio parents either hold too tightly to their old parenting patterns or step back too quickly and expect their spouse to fill in. Both can create major tension.
In this episode, we’re breaking down the four key facets of parenting and defining the roles and responsibilities of the bio-parent:
Meeting practical needs while avoiding unnecessary friction
Providing support while managing shifting priorities
Teaching important life lessons - and overcoming parental blind spots
Delivering discipline in a way that strengthens relationships rather than tearing them apart
If you’ve ever felt stuck between your kids and your spouse—or if you’ve struggled with guilt, fear, or parental paralysis—this episode is for you.
You'll Discover:
The most common 'easy wrong turns' that bio parents make when trying to “blend” the family
How to avoid creating unnecessary frustration, and resentment in your home
Why bio parents need to lead in discipline—and how to set step relationships up for success
How to provide boundaries and emotional support for your kids without letting guilt or fear take over
Strategies for building an effective parenting partnership — even when you see things differently
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