162. How do Healthy Step-Parent/Step-Child Dynamics Avoid the Pitfalls of Step-Parentification? [with Ron Deal & Lauren Reitsema]
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Parentification is one thing — but Step-Parentification is unique to itself.
In this episode, we'll continue our conversation with experts Ron Deal and Lauren Reitsema to discuss the challenges of Step-Parentification.
The reality is that kids whose parent has remarried are now navigating a relationship with a step-parent. Step relationships can be tough for everyone involved.
And navigating the expectations that come with new or not-yet-established relationships in the home can make any family susceptible to inadvertently sliding into unhealthy roles or misplaced boundaries.
No loving parent wants that for their kids — and neither does their caring step-parent.
That's why it's important for all adults to be aware of how blended family dynamics can often set the stage for Step-Parentification to emerge.
Last week we talked with Ron and Lauren about Parentification, but step-parentification is an additional element we all need to understand so that we can avoid it.
We're picking the conversation up right where we left off to help you identify and define healthy step-parent/step-child roles and establish appropriate boundaries in your home.
You'll Discover:
What "Step-Parentification" is and what it's not
The negative impact of Step-Parentification on kids now and into their future
Practical ways to safeguard your kids and step-kids from the burdens of Step-Parentification
What to do if Step-Parentification is going on in your kids' other home
What healthy roles and appropriate boundaries look like for a blended family
Resources from this Episode:
Article: Your Child Is Not Your Confidant from The Washington Post
Book: In Their Shoes by Lauren Reitsema
Book: Building Love Together in Blended Families by Ron Deal & Gary Chapman
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