103. 4 Revealing Myths About 1 on 1 Time Between Parents and their Bio-Kids (Part 1)
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Everyone hopes to experience connection and fun times together as they begin "blending" families…
…but when family time is stressful, their high hopes get snatched away and instead that time becomes a painful reminder that blending isn't as easy as they thought it might be.
We remember those moments when our hopes for a bonded family were dashed. And then we started learning about the value of the 1 on 1 strategy for bio relationships.
This strategy is the first step in paving the way to what you really want — and providing the kids with what they really need.
And for many couples, it can be hard to follow through with. It feels counterproductive and can trigger painful emotions and assumptions.
Many parents and stepparents start to believe some Myths about this 1 on 1 strategy and that robs them of the truth that genuine bonds in their blended family start with a sense of security in the bio-relationships.
In this episode, we'll reveal the most common myths around this essential strategy and replace them with counteractive truths so that you can start using this strategy with clarity and confidence!
You'll Discover:
How biological 1 on 1 connection paves the way for families to blend
4 myths that often keep couples stuck in conflict, disconnection, and pain
4 counter active truths to focus on as you work toward your family's long-term bonding goals
Practical tips for the bio and step-parent
Why it's so important to handle this issue with care and intentionality as a couple
Resources from this Episode:
Episode 39: How to Create Strong Bonds with Resistant Step-Kids
Episode 72: The Best Way to Create Healthy, Bonded Relationships
Episode 92: At a Loss and Feel Defeated Because the Kids Stubbornly Refuse to Blend?
Episode 21: What is the Stranded Stranger & Trapped Teammate Experience?
Episode 93: How to Overcome Power Struggles When Kids Oppose Your Decision to Remarry
Episode 59: Why are you stuck in a Parent-Child Allegiance?
Episode 50 about Assertive Communication: How to Openly Communicate What You Really Want
Episode 98: Is Fear of Being Vulnerable Keeping You From Loving Your Spouse WholeHeartedly?
Episode 26: Are You Stuck in a "Competition" with Your Step-Kids?
Episode 49: Should Your Highest Priority Be Your Marriage…or Your Kids?
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