091. Is your husband’s hostile ex-wife invading your life, stealing your joy and confidence?
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Imagine a time when you might really be able to get on the same page with your husband's Ex. Most of us want to get along well with the Ex, but unfortunately, the story we hear more about is that difficult Ex.
You know — that high conflict Ex that leaves you feeling emotionally exhausted. Sometimes it might feel like your spouse's Ex has way too much power over your home and your life! And they seem to be robbing you of your sanity and your peace.
And when your husband's Ex-Wife (or maybe it's your wife's Ex-husband) is invading your home and negatively impacting your relationships — you might be tempted to fight back…
…but there's a better way to respond to a hostile Ex.
In this episode, you'll discover practical steps for maintaining healthy boundaries, boosting your own self-confidence and creating more connection in your home — regardless of how that hostile Ex chooses to behave.
You can regain your joy, peace, and confidence even when that Ex doesn’t change a thing!
You'll Discover:
How to set practical boundaries and reduce the impact of a hostile Ex
Tips to maintaining your confidence — even when you're under attack
Find out the best way to respond to unfairness
How to minimize the tension created by the Ex and increase connection with your spouse
Resources from this Episode:
Schedule a Free Coaching Session with Mike & Kim
Co-Parenting Communication Platform: Our Family Wizard
Book Recommendation: The Smart Stepmom by Ron Deal & Laura Petherbridge
Episode 44: Why Does My Husband's Ex Think I'm the Enemy?
Episode 31: Unexpected Ways to Improve How You Cope with Your Ex
Episode 32: How to Safeguard Your Kids from Negative Influences
Episode 33: How to Cope with a Difficult Ex and Protect Your Kids
Episode 29: What is a Loyalty Bind and What Can You Do About It?
Episode 07: Toxic Exes and Hurting Kids - 5 Steps That Help
Episode 08: Toxic Exes and Defiant Kids - A Simple Strategy Against Lies and Slander
Episode 20: 4 Big Myths About Parenting When the Ex Has Different Rules
Episode 67: The Best Co-Parenting Strategy That You Already Know
Episode 27: How to Set Clear Boundaries and Safeguard Relationships
Episode 64: How to Set Yourself Free by Choosing to Forgive
Episode 45: How to Cooperate More with Your Spouse's Uncooperative Ex
Episode 48: Introspective Questions that Help You Put Your Kids First
Episode 21: What is the Stranded Stranger & Trapped Teammate Experience?
Episode 78: Cultivating More Passion, Intimacy, and Commitment in Your Marriage
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