082. How a Missing Bio-Parent Impacts Kids in the Delicate Blending Process (Part 2)
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This is the second half of our conversation from last week where we discussed the sensitive topic of kid's grieving when one of their parents is absent in their life.
If you missed the last episode, you may want to go back and listen to Episode 81 first — then come back here to catch the second half of the conversation where we'll also explore how this dynamic might impact the blending process. It can create sometimes create unique barriers in a child's ability to accept a step-parent.
If you or someone you know is facing this reality in their blended family, please don't miss this episode.
You'll Discover:
How kids experience different kinds of grief
Why they can idealize their missing parent and how that impacts you
Why it's important to create a 'safe space' for kids when they're struggling
How to keep connecting to grieving kids and create security for all the relationships in the home
How to navigate the fine line of speaking truth without dashing the kid's hopes and dreams of reconnecting with their disengaged parent
Resources from this Episode:
Episode 8: Toxic Exes and Hurting Kids - A Simple Strategy Against Lies and Slander
Book Recommendation: Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child by Dr. John Gottman
Ron Deal's Podcast Episode: When a Parent Goes M.I.A. with Andy and Heather Hetchler
Article: Where's Mom? The Disengaged Biological Parent by Ron Deal
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